I am always intrigued by what could make intercourse more pleasurable or more intense. When reading about sexuality the more intense intercourse tends to lean on more of the aggressive side and emotions involved. Then there is also Vanilla intercourse mix with emotion which could also make a night memorable. Lets dwell into what really makes intercourse amazing or intense. This will be from personal experience and speaking to I believe a hundred or so people regarding intercourse.
I notice a trend regarding what makes intercourse amazing or memorable there has to be some emotion involved. This off course could vary from Love too Desire and across the spectrum. Then the context and with whom you are with and how experienced the partner is. There are a few variables, but lets keep it simple and see how this add’s dimensions to intercourse within itself.
Emotions are there for survival reasons and also gives us humans as far as we know a different view in life. When with a long term partner who you may have a connection with could lead to loving intercourse. The vasporeicine and dopamine and serotine put together will give you a good after feeling and feeling secure with a partner you are with. What if it’s a one night stand? The anticipation and desire of being with a stranger is an aphrodisiac that could be very intoxicating. Off course the taboo part of it and biological side of passing down genes might add to the excitement. If you remember when you had the best intercourse some form of emotion was involved. Regarding emotion it would vary among the situation and who is involved which leads to with whom?
If we are sincere having intercourse with the same individual over a long period of time could get dull if variety and new exciting adventures are not brought into the relationship. Also learning about intercourse not to many individuals set time aside to improve the quality of sex or relationships. At times people get into long term relationships and ether one partner is not experienced or both are not. Off course this could be worked on, but if one partner is experienced if not both intercourse could be enjoyed to a much more higher degree. I was told by a friend that they prefer going into a relationship before intercourse, I have a different opinion. I believe it is better to taste the frosting before taking the whole cake.
The context or the setting in where sex will be happening will add a feeling of danger or just make sex feel much more safe. Warning be aware that open communication is essential and be aware of your state laws ETC. If you ever have been in the situation where you could be caught it adds a sense of danger to sex. This off course releases adrenaline and much needed dopamine to make the situation more exciting. Having intercourse in places where you could get caught makes you have other emotions which will make you more addicted to your partner. The brain is basically a machine which looks for patterns; If you routinely have intercourse in the same settings it becomes dull and boring because you could predict the outcome.
Basically if you desire amazing sex then you need emotions involved with someone preferably that has the experience. Have variety and always try to do something new, you could try BDSM, Swinging, Positions, Tantra, Toys. Honestly give your partner or partners a reason to want to have sex with you. Don’t complain or wine when your partner leaves you because you disregarded them.